Section 16

16. A godly man is a patient man, James 5. 11. Ye have heard of the patience of Job. Patience is a star which shines in a dark night: There is a twofold patience.

- 1. Patience in waiting. - 2. Patience in bearing.

1. Patience in waiting: A godly man, if he has not his desire presently, he will wait till the mercy be ripe, Psalm 130. 6. My soul waiteth for the Lord. Good reason God should have the Timing of our mercies, Isaiah 60. 22. I the Lord will hasten it in his time. Deliverance may tarry beyond our time, but it will not tarry beyond God's time.

Why should not we wait patiently upon God. 1. We are servants; it becomes servants to be in a waiting posture. 2. We wait upon every thing else; we wait upon the fire till it burns; we wait upon the seed till it grows, James 5. 7. Why cannot we wait upon God? 3. God has waited upon us: Did not he wait for our repentance? How often did he come year after year before he found fruit? Did God wait upon us, and cannot we wait upon him? A godly man is content to stay God's leisure, though the Vision tarry, he will wait for it.

2. Patience in bearing: This patience is twofold. 1. Either in regard of man; when we bear injuries without revenging. Or 2. In regard of God; when we bear his hand without repining: A good man will not only do God's will, but bear his will, Micah 7. 9. I will bear the indignation of the Lord. This patient bearing of God's will is not

1. A Stoical Apathy: Patience is not insensibleness under God's hand; we ought to be sensible.

2. It is not patience upon force; to bear a thing because we cannot help it; which (as Erasmus says) is rather necessity than patience. But, patience is a cheerful submission of our will to God, Acts 21. 4. The will of the Lord be done. A godly man does acquiesce in what God does, as being not only good, but best for him: The great quarrel between God and us is, whose will shall stand: Now the Regenerate will, falls in with the will of God: There are four things opposite to this patient frame of soul.

1. Disquiet of spirit: When the soul is discomposed, and pulled off the hinges, insomuch that it is unfit for holy duties; when the strings of a Lute are snarled, the Lute is not fit to make Music; so when a Christian's spirit is perplexed and disturbed, he cannot make melody in his heart to the Lord.

2. Discontent; which is a sullen dogged humor: When a man is not angry at his sins, but at his condition, this is different from patience: Discontent is the daughter of pride.

3. Prejudice, which is a dislike of God and his ways, and a falling off from Religion: Sinners have hard thoughts of God, and if he does but touch them in a tender part, they will presently be gone from him, and throw off his Livery.

4. Self-vindication, when instead of being humbled under God's hand, a man justifies himself, as if he had not deserved what he suffers: A proud sinner stands upon his own defense, and is ready to accuse God of unrighteousness, which is as if we should tax the Sun with darkness; this is far from patience: A godly man subscribes to God's wisdom, and submits to his will; he says not only good is the Word of the Lord, Isaiah 39. 8. but good is the Rod of the Lord.

Use. As we would demonstrate ourselves godly, let us be eminent in this grace of patience, Ecclesiastes 7. 8. The patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit: There are some Graces which we shall have no need of in heaven; we shall have no need of Faith when we have full Vision, nor patience when we have perfect joy; but in a dark sorrowful night, there is need of these stars to shine: Let us show our patience in bearing God's will; patience in bearing God's will is twofold.

1. When God removes any comfort from us.

2. When God imposes any evil upon us.

1. We must be patient when God removes any comfort from us: Does God take away any of our Relations? Ezekiel 24. 16. I will take away the desire of thine eyes with a stroke; yet it is our duty patiently to acquiesce in the Will of God: The loss of a dear Relation, is like the pulling away a Limb from the body. —Homo toties moritur, quoties amittit suos.—

But grace will make our hearts calm and sedate, and work us to a holy patience under such a severe dispensation. I shall lay down eight considerations, which may be as spiritual Physic to kill the worm of impatience under the loss of Relations.

1. The Lord never takes away any comfort from his people, but he gives them that which is better: The Disciples parted with Christ's corporal presence, and he sent them the Holy Ghost: God eclipses one joy, and augments another, he does but make an exchange, he takes away a Flower, and gives a Diamond.

2. Godly friends dying are in a better condition, they are taken away from the evil to come, Isaiah 57. 1. They are out of the storm, and are gotten to the Haven, Blessed are the dead that die in the Lord, Revelation 14. 13. The godly have a portion promised them upon their marriage with Christ, but the portion is not paid till the day of their death: The Saints at death are preferred to Communion with God, they have that they so long hoped for, and prayed for; why then should we be impatient at our friends' preferment?

3. You that are a Saint, have a friend in heaven which you cannot lose: The Jews have a saying at their Funerals, Let your consolation be in heaven. Are you a close Mourner, look up to heaven, and fetch comfort thence, your best kindred are above, Psalm 27. 10, When my Father and Mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up: God will be with you in the hour of death, Psalm 23. 4. Though I walk in the valley of the shadow of death, thou art with me. Other friends you cannot keep, God is a friend you cannot lose; he will be your Guide in life, your Hope in death, your Reward after death.

4. Perhaps God is correcting you for a fault, and if so, it becomes you to be patient; it may be your friend had more of your love than God, and therefore God did take away such a relation, that the stream of your love may run back to him again. A gracious woman having been deprived, first of her Children, then of her Husband, Lord (says she) thou hast a plot upon me, thou intendest to have all my love; God does not like it, to have any Creature set upon the throne of our affections, he will take away that comfort, and then he shall lie nearest our heart. If a Husband bestow a jewel upon his Wife, and she does so fall in love with that jewel, as to forget her Husband, he will take away the jewel, that her love may return to him again; a dear relation is this jewel, if we begin to idolize it, God will take away the jewel, that our love may return to him again.

5. A Godly Relation is parted with, but not lost, that is lost, which we are out of hope ever of seeing again; religious friends are but gone a little before. A time will shortly come, when there shall be a meeting without parting, 1 Thessalonians 5. 10. How glad is one friend to see another, that has been long absent? Oh what glorious acclamations shall there be, when old relations shall meet together in heaven, and be in each other's embraces? When a great prince lands at the shore, the guns go off, in token of joy; when godly friends shall be all landed at the heavenly shore, and shall congratulate one another's felicity, what stupendous joy will there be? What music in the choir of Angels? How will heaven ring of their praises? And that which is the crown of all, they who were here joined in the flesh, shall be joined nearer than ever in the mystical body, and shall lie together in Christ's bosom, that bed of perfume.

6. We have deserved worse at God's hands; has he taken away a child, a wife, a parent? He might have taken away his spirit; has he deprived us of a relation? He might have deprived us of salvation; does he put wormwood in the cup? We have deserved poison, Ezra 9. 13. Thou hast punished us less than our iniquities deserve; we have a sea of sin, and but a drop of suffering.

7. The patient soul does most sweetly enjoy itself; an impatient man is like a troubled sea, that cannot rest; he tortures himself upon the rack of his own griefs and passions, whereas patience calms the heart, as Christ did the sea, when it was rough, and now there is a sabbath in the heart, yea, a heaven, Luke 21. 19. In your patience possess ye your souls: By faith a man possesses God, and by patience he possesses himself.

8. How patient have many of the Saints been, when the Lord has broken the very staff of their comfort, in bereaving them of Relations; The Lord took away Job's children, and he was so far from murmuring, that he falls a blessing, Job 1. 21. The Lord hath taken away, blessed be the name of the Lord. God foretold the death of Eli's sons, 1 Samuel 2. 34. In one day they shall die both of them; but how patiently did he take this sad news, 1 Samuel 3. 18. It is the Lord, let him do what seemeth him good: See the difference between Eli and Pharaoh, Pharaoh says, who is the Lord? Eli says, it is the Lord: When God struck two of Aaron's sons dead, Leviticus 10. 3. Aaron held his peace; patience opens the ear, but shuts the mouth, it opens the ear to hear the Rod, but shuts the mouth that it has not a word to say against God, Behold here the patterns of patience; and shall not we write after their fair Copies? These are heart-quieting considerations, when God sets a death's-head upon our comforts, and removes dear relations from us.

2. We must be patient, when God inflicts any evil upon us, Romans 12. 12. Patient in Tribulation.

1. The Lord sometimes lays heavy affliction upon his people, Psalm 38. 2. Thy hand lies sore upon me. The Hebrew word for afflicted, signifies to be melted; God seems to melt his people in a furnace.

2. God does sometimes lay diverse afflictions on the Saints, Job 19. 17. He multiplieth my wounds: as we have diverse ways of sinning, so the Lord has diverse ways of afflicting; some he melts away their estates, others he chains to a sick bed, others he confines to a Prison; God has various arrows in his quiver, which he shoots.

3. Sometimes God lets the affliction lie long, Psalm 74. 9. There is no more any Prophet, neither is there among us any that knoweth how long: As it is with diseases, there are some Chronic, that linger and hang about the body several years together, so it is with afflictions, the Lord is pleased to exercise many of his precious ones with Chronic afflictions, such as lie upon them a long time; now in all these cases, it becomes the Saints, patiently to rest in the will of God; the Greek word for patient, is a metaphor, alludes to one who stands invincibly under a burden. This is the right notion of patience, when we bear affliction invincibly without fainting, or fretting.

The trial of a Pilot is seen in a storm; so is the trial of a Christian seen in affliction; he has the right art of navigation, who when the boisterous winds blow from heaven, does steer the ship of his soul wisely, and not dash upon the rock of impatience; a Christian should always keep a decorum, not behaving himself unseemly, or disguising himself with intemperate passion, when the hand of God lies upon him. Patience adorns suffering; affliction in Scripture is compared to a net, Psalm 66. 11. Thou broughtest us into the net. Such as have escaped the Devil's net, yet the Lord suffers them to be taken in the net of affliction, but they must not be as a wild Bull in a net, Isaiah 51. 20. to kick and fling against their Maker, but lie patiently till God break the net, and makes a way for their escape. I shall propound four cogent Arguments, to excite patience under those evils which God inflicts on us.

1 Afflictions are [in non-Latin alphabet], for our benefit. Hebrews 12:9. He for our profit, we pray that God would take such a course with us as may do our souls Good, when God is afflicting us, he is hearing our prayers, he does it for our profit: not that afflictions in themselves do profit us, but as God's Spirit works with them. For as the waters of Bethesda could not give health of themselves, unless the Angel descended and stirred the water, John 5:4. So the waters of affliction are not in themselves healing till God's Spirit cooperates and sanctifies them to us: Afflictions are many ways profitable.

1. They make men sober and wise: Physicians appoint distracted persons to be bound in Chains, and to be dieted, and have hard fare to bring them to the use of reason: Many run stark mad in prosperity, they neither know God nor themselves; the Lord therefore binds them with cords of affliction, that he may bring them to their right understandings, Job 36:8. If they be held in cords of affliction, then he shows them their transgression, he opens also their ear to discipline.

2 Afflictions are a friend to grace.

1 They beget grace; Beza acknowledged God laid the foundation of his Conversion in a violent sickness at Paris.

2 They augment grace, the people of God are beholden to their troubles, they had never had so much grace, if they had not met with such sore trials; now, the waters run, and the spices flow forth. The Saints thrive by affliction, as the Lacedemonians grew rich by war; God makes grace flourish most in the fall of the leaf.

3 Afflictions quicken our pace in the way to heaven; it is with us, as with children sent on an errand, if they meet with Apples or Flowers by the way, they linger and make no great haste home, but if anything fright them, then they run with all the speed they can to their father's house; so in prosperity, we are gathering the Apples and Flowers, and do not much mind heaven, but if troubles begin to arise, and the times grow frightful, then we make more haste to heaven, and with David; run the way of God's commandments. Psalm 119:32.

2 God intermixes mercy with affliction, he steeps his sword of justice in the oil of mercy, there was no night so dark, but Israel had a Pillar of fire in it; there is no condition so dismal, but we may see a Pillar of fire to give light, if the body be in pain, conscience is in peace, there is mercy; affliction is for the prevention of sin, there is mercy: In the Ark there was a rod and a pot of Manna, the Emblem of a Christian's condition, mercy interlined with judgment, here is the rod and Manna.

3 Patience evidences much of God in the heart; patience is one of God's titles; Romans 15:5. The God of patience; you that have your heart cast into this blessed mold, it is a sign God has imparted much of his own nature to you, you shine with some of his beams.

Impatience evidences much unsoundness of heart; as it is in the body, if the body be of that temper, that every little scratch of a pin makes the flesh to rankle, you will say, sure this man's flesh is very unsound; so for every petty cross to fly out in impatience, and quarrel with providence, it is the sign of a distempered Christian; if there be any grace in such an heart, they must have good eyes that can see it; but he who is of a patient spirit, is a graduate in Religion, and does much participate of the divine nature.

4 The end of affliction is glorious; the Jews were captive in Babylon, but what was the end? They departed out of Babylon with vessels of silver, with gold and precious things, Ezra 1:6. So, what is the end of affliction, it ends in endless glory, Acts 14:22. 2 Corinthians 4:17. How may this rock our impatient hearts quiet: who would not willingly travel through a little dirty way, and plowed lands, at the end whereof is a fair meadow, and in that meadow, a golden mine?

Question. How shall I get my heart tuned into a patient frame?

Answer. 1 Get faith; all our impatience proceeds from unbelief; faith is the breeder of patience, when a storm of passion begins to arise, faith says to the heart, as Christ to the Sea, peace, be still, and there is presently a calm.

Question. How does faith work patience?

Answer. Faith argues the soul into patience; faith is like that Town Clerk in Ephesus, who allayed the contention of the multitude, and argued them soberly into peace, Acts 19:35, 36. So when impatience begins to clamor and make a hubbub in the soul; faith appeases the tumult, and argues the soul into holy patience: Says faith, Why are you disquieted O my Soul? Are you afflicted? Is it not your Father has done it? He is carving and polishing you, and making you fit for glory, he smites that he may save; what is your trial, is it sickness? God shakes the Tree of your body, that some fruit may fall, even the peaceable fruit of righteousness, Hebrews 12:11. Are you driven from your habitation? God has prepared for you a City, Hebrews 11:16. Do you suffer reproach for Christ's sake? A spirit of God and glory rest upon you, 1 Peter 4:14. Thus faith argues and disputes the soul into patience.

2 Pray to God for patience, patience is a flower of God's planting; pray that it may grow in your heart, and send forth its sweet perfume: Prayer is a holy charm, to charm down the evil spirit; prayer composes the heart, and puts it in Tune, when impatience has broken the strings, and put all into a confusion: Oh go to God, prayer delights God's ear, it melts his heart, it opens his hand; God cannot deny a praying soul; seek to him with importunity, and either he will remove the affliction, or which is better, he will remove your impatience.

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